I really felt like sharing this experience with yall. You know especially in this season of owambes, you don’t have to go all out to buy aso-ebi if you cant afford it oh. Besides that you can’t afford it now does not mean you can’t afford it late. Honestly speaking, why go into debts, because you want to please someone? Who debts epp? NB: be rest assured I wont pick any aso-ebi for any of my events/ceremonies, I honestly feel its too much stress on your friends. My personal opinion tho, i don't have anything against those who do. If i have spare money, i buy, if i don't, it doesn't stop me from finding something nice in my wardrobe and attending, except you don't want me to... Nd really, say you call party and people attend, you better be grateful oh, hummmm, na honour them honour you oh.